May 4, 2007
A few weeks back I went golfing for the first time. I went out on the course with the expectation of shooting something that resembled my shoe size more than my age – though after the fourth hole, the latter seemed the most likely.
At the end of the course, I walked away with an abysmal +30 score. By all measures, I had failed miserably – but I wasn’t miserable, I was excited! My failure to play a “good” round of golf did not deter me – and the fact that the next round I played would be a similar disaster did not dampen my spirits. I knew eventually, after a long line of failures that there would come a time where I would shoot under par. I just needed to fail some more before I could do succeed.
In business we are taught that failure is the ultimate f-word. I say bull. To any intelligent person, failure is the second best outcome of a situation. Every failure makes you stronger – not just giving experience in one insular circumstance, but hundreds of other similar circumstances throughout in the future. One failure today will prevent a hundred more over the next twenty or thirty years.
If I gave you a piece of paper and had you catalogue everything you did that was perfect in one column and every mistake in another – which column would be longer? True, chronic failure is not desirable, but to those who learn from each mistake the chances of success increase exponentially. In the end, one great success will wipe out reams of paper filled with failures.
If you aren’t failing, you aren’t trying. That is why I wake up every day ready to fail. Because failure is not a curse word, a black spot or an anathema – it’s the leading indicator for success.
~Written by Nathan
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May 1, 2007
I graduated from college a few years ago… I’m not bragging, I’m regretting. I graduated with a degree in Information Systems Management that was supposed to prepare me exactly for what I’m doing now: managing projects, overseeing work flow, marketing a product, and all the other aspects of running a small business.
If I had only read this when I got out of high school. If I had taken Guy’s advice and learned how to make money instead of being an employee. If I had just found Seth’s blog when he started it… I’m not saying all college is a total waste. I am saying that my university was a total waste for me.
Let me break that down.
I went to college to get a degree. My parents told me a degree was “something to fall back on”, it was “security”, and it would “prepare me for the real world”. In reality it took away my preparedness. I’m a surviving kinda guy. I needed to pass college so I did it the best way possible: find out what the teachers wanted and gave it to them. Within a year I wasn’t trying… I graduated top 10 in my class because I was the best at giving the teachers what they wanted… not because I paid attention to anything they said.
Fast forward to now. I guess that was a valuable lesson. Learning how to give people what they want… but you know what I wish I had known even more? How to setup QuickBooks, or better yet, how to release a successful press release.
You know what I’m realizing now? I wish I had worked at my dad’s company and read an article like this.
Because you know what I have learned that has been worthwhile since I started college (until the present)?
A lot of things… but most of the valuable ones came from Blogs like Seth’s and Books like Guy’s.
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