House Hunting While Expecting? Don’t Forget About These Things

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House hunting can be quite a process on its own — knowing that your family is about to get bigger makes it more daunting.

If you’re expecting, there are a host of considerations to keep in mind when choosing where to live, and you might not realize what they all are.

Don’t worry: House hunting while expecting doesn’t have to be extra stressful if you’re prepared. Here’s what to prepare for when looking for a place to call home while pregnant.

What To Look for in a New Floor Space

a pregnant couple looks over the blueprint of a home while holding mugs

One of the most important places to start is the size of any prospective home. Will it be able to accommodate you and your partner, along with one or more kids?

Having enough space is one thing, but you’ll also want to consider the overall layout of the house. How easily it can be baby-proofed? Are there any design components that could make it more difficult or dangerous to get around? 

 

“Things you use less frequently (seasonal clothing, sports equipment, holiday decorations, etc.) can get packed weeks or months ahead of time.”

 

Remember, you need to think about whether you should invest in a larger home now, or whether it’s feasible (and within budget) to add on to your home a few years down the road.

With that in mind, here’s a list of questions that need answers.

Where are the bedrooms located in relation to one another?

a hallway painted mint green opens up into two bedrooms set next to each other. One has a view of a queen sized bed with a dark red bedspread.

It’s important to think about where all the bedrooms are in relation to each other. Proximity is key. For example, you may want them all on the same floor (because rushing up and down stairs to attend to a crying baby in the middle of the night is certainly not ideal).

Also, while it’s not always possible to predict exactly what your family will look like in several years, think about how many children you want to have and whether there are enough rooms to accommodate everyone as time goes on. You might get away with having youngsters share a room for a while, but as they grow into their teens, they’ll probably want more space and privacy. Could that office space or TV room be transformed into another bedroom at some point?

Is there more than one bathroom?

two toddlers standing by a toilet in a bathroom. There is a counter with a sink on top and blue towels folded below to the left.

You may be able to get by with a single bathroom now, but what about when your child hits school age? Do you really want to be fighting for space while rushing to get everyone out the door?

Today, it costs between $5,000 and $35,000 — or about $15,000, on average — to add a bathroom to your home, according to HomeAdvisor.

Are stairs going to be a factor for you? (Probably.)

Parents who are city dwellers know how difficult it can be if you live on the third floor of a walk-up building. And after pregnancy, bringing a stroller, a baby, and groceries up and down three flights of stairs is still quite the trek! Even if you have a standalone home, you may not want to worry about babyproofing a staircase or lugging laundry up and down stairs. 

If there’s no getting around the stair situation, you could look into installing handrails and treads for safety, or a dumbwaiter to cut down on climbing stairs with your arms full.

Is there an open floor plan?

the interior of a home, with a white couch and houseplant on the right and a kitchen with stove and fridge on the left, in an example of an open floor plan

These days, open floor plans are popular. This type of layout is not only aesthetically pleasing, but it also allows you to keep an eye on what’s going on in other rooms. For example, whichever parent is preparing dinner can keep an eye on the kids as they play in the living room with an open kitchen layout.

However, an open floor plan isn’t for everyone. You may prefer a big eat-in kitchen with a table where kids can play on their tablets or finish their homework before dinner. So make sure whatever layout you choose is one that works well for you and your kid’s safety.

Where are you gonna store extra stuff?

a garage converted into storage for bikes, a tricycle, and boxes of household items.

Kids come with a lot of stuff! With strollers, clothing, toys, and sports equipment … is there storage space for all of these things in your potential home? Even if you don’t plan on having a huge family, it’s always great to have extra rooms for overflowing toys, pets, and guests. And ideally,  parents may want their own “cave” for a little me time.

Don’t forget the laundry room

Finally, make sure you have an area dedicated to washing and folding laundry with enough space and storage to make the process as easy on your family as possible. Having kids means there are always piles of dirty clothes to deal with. And that doesn’t change as they get older — the clothes just get bigger. So look for a home that can accommodate a washer and dryer, and a dedicated room to contain it all.

Safety Concerns

a woman guides two children riding bikes with training wheels across a crosswalk

Even if there weren’t any kids to consider, safety is a priority when house hunting. Add kids to the mix and you become that much more aware of potential safety hazards. 

Is this home near a busy street?

A busy street can be a potential deterrent for a number of factors. First, it may be pretty noisy. The sounds of honking horns and sirens going by aren’t ideal for sleeping babies or tired parents. Plus, you don’t want your kids playing near areas with a lot of traffic for obvious safety reasons. 

 

“Remember, you need to think about whether you should invest in a larger home now, or whether it’s feasible (and within budget) to add on to your home a few years down the road.”

 

To check out the traffic situation near a property you’re considering, look up the area on Google Maps. You can see if there are any highways or major thoroughfares nearby, as well as see what general traffic conditions are like. Nearby construction projects may also cause more traffic to divert down your street, so keep that in mind too.

What about a fence?

a family plays soccer in a fenced in yard

A home with a yard is ideal for a growing family, but also you want to make sure that yard is contained. Make sure there is a fence around the perimeter as an added safety measure to keep kids or pets from wandering too far. 

If there isn’t a fence, budget for the cost of adding one when checking out potential properties. The average cost of a fence installation ranges from $1,667 to $4,075, with a national average of $2,839, according to bobvila.com. The good news is a fenced yard adds curb appeal and may positively impact the value of your home.

How can you tell the neighborhood is safe?

a child riding a tricycle while walking his small white dog in a safe neighborhood

When house hunting, you’ll want to get a sense of how safe the neighborhood is in general. If kids are out riding their bikes and playing in the streets, it may be a good sign that your future kiddos can hang with their neighbors without worry.

Of course, there’s no such thing as a 100% safe neighborhood, and parents must always be vigilant and observant. To get a feel for the crime rate, check out your desired city on AreaVibes, which offers crime maps and other useful tools. You can also sign up for the Nextdoor app, which allows local residents to update each other on happenings and potential concerns in the neighborhood.

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How far are you from your personal doctor or an urgent care/hospital location?

As an expecting mother, you want to ensure you have easy access to healthcare providers. Not only will there be frequent trips to your doctor for checkups, but at some point, the Big Moment will arrive. Not to mention that once the baby is here, there will be plenty more visits to ensure they are growing up strong and healthy.

How will inclement weather affect you?

a car trapped in a snowed-in driveway in front of a white and red home. There is more snow piled up in drifts on either side of the lawn.

In addition to road access and traffic conditions, think about how the local climate might impact your ability to get around, stay safe, and save money.

For example, if you choose a property that resides in a flood zone, you’ll need to have a contingency plan for relocating to safety if flooding does occur. These areas also require special flood insurance, which needs to be accounted for in your housing budget. 

 

“Today, it costs between $5,000 and $35,000 — or about $15,000, on average — to add a bathroom to your home, according to HomeAdvisor”

 

If it snows heavily in the winter, think about whether you’ll be on a street where snow plows run regularly, or you’ll need to shovel/plow your own property in order to get in and out.

Walkability and Neighborhoods

a couple pushes their child in a stroller down a tree-lined street

Location, location, location. It’s always the number one factor when buying a home of any kind. But throw a kid or two into the mix and where you live is more important than the view. Walkability is important when you have kids, so check how easy it is to walk to school, playgrounds, nearby shops, and restaurants.

What’s the school district like?

Take into account the school district boundaries when deciding whether to purchase a home, since this translates into the kind of school your kids could get into. One good place to start is GreatSchools.org, which helps parents evaluate the schools in their area based on factors ranging from test scores to equity for all students. You can use the search filters to search by grade level, rating, and more.

How long does it take to get to school or childcare?

a group of children all wearing backpacks approach a school entrance. There are colorful paper decorations on the top window of the building.

Your kid might be far from their first words, but this is a crucial variable to think about when searching for your perfect home. It might not seem like a big deal when you’ve found a beautiful home that you want to buy, but choosing a place that’s 30 minutes or more away from your child’s school or daycare center can get old fast.

Even if it’s close, you’ll want to consider how easy it is to drop them off. Is your child’s school in the complete opposite direction of your office? Is it possible for them to walk or take the bus when they get older? Future you will say thank you for thinking about these things now.

Are there other families in your neighborhood?

neighbors talk around a table during a block party. they're of all different ages, showing a mix of different families.

When narrowing down locations, it may be beneficial to take a stroll through the neighborhood on a weekend afternoon. Are there young families at the park? Are the kids a lot older? Is the demographic mostly older people without families?

Do some research to get a feel for the demographics of the neighborhood to see if your future family will fit right in. City-data.com is a good place to get general stats about population density, diversity, etc. And again, the Nextdoor app is a great resource for connecting with neighbors and finding out what events and activities are happening. 

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Where’s the closest park/library/swimming pool?

Kids also need stuff to do on their weekends and holidays (and you need a break from entertaining them every now and then), so look into local recreation opportunities. Are there any sports programs, a community pool, and/or a good local library? Nobody wants to have to make a field trip out of every excursion, so be sure there’s stuff to do nearby.

Tips for Moving While Pregnant

Once you’ve finally found your family’s dream home, it’s time to get moving. Read on for safety precautions and tips to make moving while pregnant easier and safer.

Speak to your physician about the specific precautions you need to take

a pregnant person speaks to a physician

Before getting too deep into the moving process, consult your healthcare provider to ensure that moving is safe for you and your baby, and to discuss any necessary precautions. In general, try to keep the following in mind to stay safe and healthy while moving:

  • Try not to carry any heavy stuff: Now is not the time to be a hero — you’re already growing a human! Rely on others to do the heavy lifting and focus your efforts on organizing, cleaning, directing, etc.
  • Avoid the stairs: As we mentioned earlier, you should limit your trips up and down the stairs, especially as you get fatigued throughout the day. It’s not worth risking a fall.
  • Take breaks and stay hydrated: Listen to your body and take frequent breaks to rest, stretch, and drink some water.
  • Maintain a healthy routine: Continue to eat well, exercise (as recommended by your healthcare provider), and get enough sleep to ensure you and your baby remain healthy during this time.

Plan the packing process and get help with moving

pregnant couple talks while packing boxes for an upcoming move

Start the packing process way before moving day. And don’t do it all yourself! Get someone to pack your belongings, especially the heavy or hard-to-reach items.

  • Declutter: Now is a great time to make room for a new family member and start fresh in your new home. Work on going through all of your stuff and deciding what you do and don’t want to keep. Remember: Unwanted items in good condition can be donated.
  • Pack gradually: Spread out the packing process over several weeks to avoid fatigue and stress. Things you use less frequently (seasonal clothing, sports equipment, holiday decorations, etc.) can get packed weeks or months ahead of time.
  • Delegate tasks: Don’t hesitate to ask for help from friends and family. Avoid heavy lifting and strenuous activities that may put a strain on your body, and delegate those to others instead.
  • Prioritize comfort: Make sure to pack a box or suitcase with essentials such as comfortable clothing, toiletries, and medications to have easy access during the move.

Choose the right moving company: If you opt for professional movers, research and choose a reputable company that you can trust to do the hard work of lifting and carrying heavy stuff for you.

9 Ways To Get Familiar With the People in Your New Neighborhood

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Moving to a new city can be exciting, but also a little daunting. If youre worried about feeling like an outsider in your new hometown, it helps to get involved in your neighborhood as soon as possible. 

One study by Rutgers University found that frequent, positive contact with neighbors improves psychological well-being. Additionally, consistently low levels of contact with neighbors are linked to a decline in the same measure, especially as people get older.

But dont worry, you really dont have to go door-to-door and personally introduce yourself to everyone in the neighborhood. Here are nine ways to naturally get involved in the community, meet some new friends, and maybe even make some changes.


How To Learn Your New Neighborhood

1. Quickly introduce yourself to your neighbors online

If you’re still in the midst of unpacking boxes and arranging furniture, the last thing you want is to host anyone for coffee or dinner. Fortunately, you can introduce yourself and start getting to know your neighbors without even having to meet them. 

 

“…for every $100 you spend at a locally-owned business, $68 stays within the local community, versus just $43 when you shop at a national retailer.”

 

Start by signing up for Nextdoor, an app for neighborhoods that lets you buy and sell items, get the scoop on local happenings, and more. It’s available in 300,000 neighborhoods and one in three U.S. households uses it. Your first post can be a simple, friendly “hello” where you let your neighbors know you’ve recently joined the community and tell everyone a little bit about yourself. 

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Similarly, there may be local Facebook groups dedicated to keeping residents informed about what’s happening in the community, or even connecting people with certain interests. For example, you might join your local “Buy Nothing” group, where neighbors can post about free items they have available, or find out if anyone is willing to donate a certain item they need. If you just moved, it’s a great way to meet new people and get rid of your extra stuff. Win-win!

2. See what events your community currently has

Even the smallest towns have local events going on; maybe there’s a Thursday morning farmer’s market, a community theatre show, or a new hiking meetup. Seeking out a community event calendar is a huge way to meet like-minded neighbors, or even to find ways to help out.

Search through Eventbrite, Time Out and Meetup. And never underestimate the power of your neighborhood’s bulletin boards and local newspapers.

3. Stand out and do some favors for your neighbors

How nice would it be if someone knocked and your door and asked if you needed some help moving in?

So you can imagine how one of the best ways to establish yourself as a good neighbor is also one of the simplest: Make yourself available.

How though? Opportunities are most prevalent on apps and Facebook; it’s often as simple as offering to pick up groceries or prescriptions for your elderly neighbors or offering to feed pets and water plants when they’re out of town. Why not?

Have children? Make playdates with neighborhood kids! Once youve gotten to know a few families better, offer to babysit (or if you have an older child interested in the job, offer up their services as a sitter). Again, Nextdoor is a great tool for finding out whats happening in the neighborhood and learning about opportunities to help.

4. Your pet (or future pet) is the biggest icebreaker ever

Walking your dog around town or taking it to the local dog park is a super easy way to meet fellow pet parents. (A cute pup can be a great icebreaker!) Plus, if you’re into a certain breed, there may be local meetups for enthusiasts, so don’t forget to Google your area for any meetups or events.

And if you don’t have a furry friend yet, but want one, consider bringing a stray cat or dog (or even a rabbit or bird!) into your home and giving that pet a chance at a new life.

With just a little Googling, you can adopt an animal from a local shelter or rescue, or help multiple pets find their forever homes by fostering.

5. Buy stuff from the local businesses near your home

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Sure, Amazon Primes two-day shipping might be one of the most convenient inventions on the planet … but its not great for the environment, and there are likely many local Mom-and-Pops that could use your business instead.

There are a ton of benefits to supporting local businesses. Buying from places near you:

  • Cuts down on packaging and emissions
  • Helps create local jobs
  • Pumps money back into the local economy

In fact, for every $100 you spend at a locally-owned business, $68 stays within the local community, versus just $43 when you shop at a national retailer. 

Plus, you learn about the area by talking to regulars and shopkeepers. If you frequent a business, your face becomes familiar and you make friends with other people who live nearby.

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So the next time you eat out, try a local restaurant and be sure to tip well. Do at least some of your grocery shopping at farmers’ markets to support local agriculture. Or check out your neighborhood boutiques for one-of-a-kind finds. (And when you find a great spot, give them some extra support by sharing it on social media!)

6. Donate to the charities and food banks that exist nearby

If you’re wondering what your new place’s biggest needs are, then it just makes sense to check out the local charities, food drives, and other charitable organizations nearby. By doing a little research, youll get a much better sense of the specific social issues that affect your community the most.

 

“One study by Rutgers found that frequent, positive contact with neighbors improves psychological well-being.”

 

If you’re not sure where to donate, Charity Navigator is a great place to start. It lets you look up organization ratings and gives you information on how each charity works. If youre looking for a specific type of organization, you can try searching these directories as well:

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Thinking about donating to someone? Here are some donation ideas, and the best ways to do it:

  • Money: A no-brainer, often charitable organizations already have a deep understanding of what their members need. Donating money allows them to channel resources where they’re required.
  • Food: Local food banks are a crucial part of communities. Keep in mind that many food banks don’t have adequate refrigeration, so avoid donating perishables or frozen foods. You can also ask what they’re in need of; some items like cooking oil are always in-demand, but most people don’t think to donate them.
  • Clothing: Make sure you’re giving items that are clean, gently used, and devoid of tears and holes. It’s a good idea to call the charity ahead of time and find out what clothing items and sizes are most needed.
  • Toiletries: People often overlook hygiene necessities when donating. Think about giving essentials such as toothpaste, soap, shampoo, and deodorant.
  • Furniture: If you have seating, tables, lamps, or bed frames taking up storage space, someone out there will make great use of it. If you don’t have a vehicle or the upper body strength to move large items, many organizations will pick up furniture for free at your location.
  • Books and toys: Many children need developmental tools that their families can’t afford.
  • Pet food and pet supplies: Donate food, blankets/towels, bowls, toys, and more to animal shelters, rescues, or families with pets. 

7. Volunteering is still king

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If you’ve bounced back from your moving exhaustion quickly and are the type of person who loves getting directly involved, one of the most valuable resources you can share with your new community is your time. And theres likely a special skill that you can put to good use. 

Maybe you have great administrative, technical, or customer service skills that could help out a local organization. But even if you have no specialized skills, there are countless ways for you to lend a hand, from monitoring recreation center activity to spending quality time with lonely seniors. Plus, you might meet other volunteers who share your same values.

Some places where your volunteer time might be needed include:

  • Volunteer fire department
  • Local parks and nature centers
  • Senior centers
  • Food banks
  • Soup kitchens or city missions
  • Career services
  • Habitat For Humanity

8. Sign up to mentor someone nearby

Yes, people really need mentors!

Offering up your time as a mentor to a young person in the community is a great way to pass some of your expertise on. Some organizations safe to consider include the Big Brothers and Big Sisters of America, YMCA/YWCA, Boys and Girls Clubs of America, and 4-H, all of which provide younger people with activities and opportunities they wouldn’t otherwise have.

 

“Nextdoor [is] an app for neighborhoods that lets you buy and sell items, get the scoop on local happenings, and more. It’s available in 300,000 neighborhoods and one in three U.S. households uses it.”

 

If youre particularly interested in contributing your time to youth education, there are several options:

  • Tutoring: You don’t have to be a certified school teacher to help local kids with their homework or improve their grades. Check with the local library or online for opportunities to tutor in your area. 
  • STEM mentorship: If you have expertise in science, technology, engineering, or math and want to ensure more kids pursue these important fields, consider providing a STEM mentorship.
  • University mentorship: If you prefer to work with older students, consider becoming a university mentor. Check with your local university about volunteer opportunities they might have for you. (This could involve anything from participating in panels or being available to students with questions.)

You might also consider coaching for a local youth league or volunteering to teach an art project. Ask around or search online to find opportunities to contribute to your community’s youth population.

9. Find out when your neighborhood does cleanups (yes, they’re often already scheduled)

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If you want to meet local leaders while helping to beautify your neighborhood, try joining a community cleanup. And if there arent any on the horizon, organize one yourself!

If you do have to start a cleanup on your own, know it can be done! Here’s what you have to do:

  • Don’t keep driving by, pick an area that you think needs cleaned (make sure to decide how large of an area your group will cover)
  • Pick a date, time, and a starting meeting location ahead of time
  • Put a call out! Try reaching out to green-focused organizations, handing out flyers (if you’re hardcore), and post about it on social media. The more people you can recruit, the larger the impact your cleanup will have and the faster it’ll go.
  • Gather supplies, including trash bags, gloves, and pickers. To save money, ask everyone to bring their own.
  • Dont forget that all the trash you gather will need a place to go; contact public works to find out where you can dump waste or see if its possible to schedule a pickup.

If your efforts are a success, consider making it a monthly event, and maybe even partnering with neighboring towns.


The bottom line is that no matter how far away you’ve moved, its possible to find a new sense of belonging. And you don’t have to go crazy either; in addition to getting involved in community organizations and charities, it can be as simple as posting “hello” on a community forum.

There are many ways to put yourself out there, and the more you do, the quicker you’ll be considered a good friend and neighbor. 

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