2024 Study: Half As Many Millennials Move as a Decade Ago. Where Are They Going?

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Key Findings

  • 11% of millennials moved in 2023, only half as many as a decade ago
  • “New or better housing” (16%), ”New job” (13%), and “Establishing own household” (11%) are the top stated reasons for millennial moves
  • The share of millennials moving for “Cheaper housing” (9%) in 2023 is the highest it’s been since 2011
  • Montana (+95%), Connecticut (+56%), and Maine (+54%) saw the most millennials move in, compared to moving out
  • Tampa, FL (+95%) metro saw almost twice as many millennials move in versus leave
  • Metros of New York, NY (-56%), San Jose, CA (-51%), and Los Angeles, CA (-40%) saw far more millennials leave versus move in

America’s largest generation – millennials (those born between 1982 and 2000) – are steadily rolling towards becoming middle-aged, and grappling with the fact that they may not be better off than the generations before them.

This is because millennials are among the highest earners, yet they are also the generation with the second highest level of household debt. As of last year, the share of millennials who own a home has finally reached over 50%, while some 16% are still living with their parents

 

[High mortgage rates and low home sales] could explain why the amount of those in this generation who move has steadily declined. The share of millennials who moved last year is half of what it was just a decade ago.”

 

And despite a relatively strong year for job growth and the economy in general, 2023 had the highest mortgage interest rates in recent history, with the worst home sales record in 28 years.

This could explain why the amount of those in this generation who move has steadily declined. The share of millennials who moved last year is half of what it was just a decade ago.

To understand millennials’ living situation better, we examined the trends shaping millennial moves in the United States and highlighted the cities and states that saw the most millennials leave, as well as move in.


Why the Share of Millennials on the Move Has Almost Halved Over a Decade

Reflecting broader national moving trends, the share of millennials who moved over the last decade has declined. And this decline is rather sharp! 

Unlike Gen Z whose moving rate is trending upward, only 11% of millennials moved in 2023, down from 21% the decade prior (2013).

In part, such a slowdown can be a natural consequence of people settling into their life, becoming homeowners, having children, and establishing themselves in their careers. However, as various studies suggest, millennials are less likely to own a home, be married or have kids

This is why the explanation for the declining rates of millennial moves is likely more to do with the socio-economic situation millennials find themselves in.

Housing Unaffordability

On average, aspiring first-time buyers can’t afford home ownership, due to the almost complete unaffordability of homes across the United States. 

And the millennials who can afford a home are unlikely to buy (and move into) a newer home because current mortgage rates are two to three times higher than in the previous decade.

Renting

The situation in the rental market is similarly dire. While rental rates seem to have plateaued lately, they’re still 22% higher than before the COVID-19 pandemic, while average earnings in the same period have risen by 3.2%, according to the U.S. Treasury.

Debt & Finances

Another factor that’s holding millennials back from moving is finances. Saddled with an enormous amount of debt (a lot of it from student loans), many millennials likely find themselves unable to afford to move, with many living paycheck to paycheck.

In last year’s HireAHelper moving survey, 58% of respondents (and 60% of millennials) who wanted to move said they had to stay put because they couldn’t afford to move. This combination of economic trends and financial forces leaves many Americans, millennials chief among them, locked into their current housing situation, unable to get onto the housing ladder — let alone move upwards.


New Homes and New Jobs: Top Reasons for Millennial Moves

So what about those millennials who did manage to relocate? 

The three main drivers of millennial moves in 2023, according to our analysis of the U.S. Census data, were ”Wanted new or better housing” (16%), “New job or job transfer” (13%), and “To establish own household” (11%).

When it comes to moving for new jobs, millennials are the most likely generation to make such a move. Only Gen Z comes close, with 11% of their moves taking place for new jobs.

It is also for the first time since before the declaration of the COVID-19 Pandemic that job-related moves accounted for as many as 15% of all moves that they collectively made.

At the same time, a roughly equal share of millennials moved “For cheaper housing” (9%) and more explicitly, reportedly moved because they “Wanted to own a home, not rent”(9%).


To and From: Origins and Destinations of Millennial Migration

Millennials might be moving less than before, but they still account for around 1 in 5 of all moves (18%) across state lines in 2023, based on our analysis of the U.S. Census data.

Top States for Millennials

Looking at the U.S. states, Texas attracted the highest number of millennials moving out of their home state. 

Last year, the Lone Star state welcomed almost 400,000 millennials as new residents, which is nearly 10% of all the cross-state moves made by millennials in 2023!

In terms of net moves (i.e., the ratio of those moving in, versus those moving out), the undisputed leader is Montana, where 95% more millennials moved in than left.

 

Last year, the Lone Star state welcomed almost 400,000 millennials as new residents, which is nearly 10% of all the cross-state moves made by millennials in 2023!”

 

Four other states had around 50% more millennials move in versus out: Connecticut (+56%), Maine (+54%), Oklahoma (+53%), and New Hampshire (47%).

One possible explanation for why these particular destinations were chosen is due to household income

Those making interstate moves to Maine, Connecticut, and New Hampshire had a 29% higher household income than those moving to Montana, Oklahoma, and South Carolina.

State Net Millennial Moves State Net Millennial Moves
Montana 95% New York -52%
Connecticut 56% California -39%
Maine 54% District of Columbia -33%
Oklahoma 53% Iowa -31%
New Hampshire 47% Louisiana -29%
South Carolina 40% Massachusetts -28%
Texas 39% Illinois -25%
Florida 38% Wisconsin -20%
Tennessee 38% North Dakota -18%
Arizona 37% Arkansas -11%

Bottom States for Millennials

When it comes to states millennials were most keen to leave behind, the biggest losers were New York (-52%), California (-39%), Massachusetts (-28%), and Illinois (-25%).

These states, infamous for their high cost of living, lost significantly more millennials than they gained last year.

The list of states millennials were more likely to leave also highlights their sensitivity to home prices; as many as 19% of millennials who left California, and 17% of those who left New York, moved to find cheaper housing — that was the highest percentage of housing cost-driven moves across all states.

Find out how popular your state was in the millennial cross-state migration using our interactive map below.

The Top Cities: Top Millennial Metro Destinations Are in Florida

Much like retirees, many millennials appear to be moving to cities and their metropolitan areas in Florida.

Top States for Millennials

More specifically, metropolitan areas around Tampa, FL (+59%) and Jacksonville, FL (+54%) – had some of the highest net gain of millennial residents in the country.

Slotting in between them is the Las Vegas, NV metro area, which saw 52% more millennials move in than leave last year. The Gen Z magnet Austin, TX was also up there, with 47% more millennials moving in versus out of the Austin area in 2023.

Metro Net Millennial Moves Metro Net Millennial Moves
Tampa-St. Petersburg-Clearwater, FL 95% New York-Newark-Jersey City, NY-NJ-PA -56%
Las Vegas-Henderson-Paradise, NV 56% San Jose-Sunnyvale-Santa Clara, CA -51%
Jacksonville, FL 54% Los Angeles-Long Beach-Anaheim, CA -40%
Nashville-Davidson-Franklin, TN 53% Detroit-Warren-Dearborn, MI -34%
Austin-Round Rock, TX 47% San Francisco-Oakland-Hayward, CA -31%
Bridgeport-Stamford-Norwalk, CT 40% El Paso, TX -29%
Phoenix-Mesa-Scottsdale, AZ 39% Milwaukee-Waukesha-West Allis, WI -29%
Oklahoma City, OK 38% Miami-Fort Lauderdale-West Palm Beach, FL -27%
Richmond, VA 38% Chicago-Naperville-Elgin, IL-IN-WI -26%
Raleigh, NC 37% Hartford-West Hartford-East Hartford, CT -25%

Bottom States for Millennials

As per the state-level findings, metro areas in New York and California are losing the most millennials. Both the New York City and San Jose, CA metros had over 50% more millennials leave than move in.

Curiously, both Florida and Texas featured metros on both sides of the scale. While millennials may be flocking to metros around Tampa, FL and Austin, TX, it looks like they’re moving out of El Paso, TX and Miami, FL metros.

Check out all the metros with enough move data to paint the picture in our interactive map below.


Will Millennials Move Again?

We enter 2024 with a relatively positive outlook on the economy, the real estate market, and jobs. That would suggest that if you correlate millennial migration to economic trends, as we’ve done at great length in this study, you would have to predict millennial moving could rise again soon. And for such a frequently disenfranchised generation, they can use all the good news they can get.


Sources and Methodology

All data on moves, their origins, destinations, and reasons behind them was taken from the U.S. Census Bureau’s Current Population Survey and its Annual Social and Economic Supplements, as available via IPUMS. All estimates and percentages are based on moves within the United States.
For this study, we adapted the definition of generations from Beresford Research which defined them based on their age in 2023 as follows:
  • Gen Z: 18* – 26
  • Millennials (Gen Y): 27 – 42
  • Gen X: 43 – 58
  • Baby Boomers: 59 – 77
Technically, Gen Z includes anyone from age 11, but our analysis only included moves made by adults.
Net gain and loss for states and metropolitan areas was calculated as follows:
  • # of people moving into the state or city, to
  • the # of people moving out of the state or city,
  • expressed as a percentage (%)

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2023 Study: The Year Gen Z Adults Moved More Than Any Other Generation

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Key Findings

  • Gen Z is the most mobile generation, as 17% of its adult members moved in 2023, compared to 8% across all ages
  • Around 16% of moves by Gen Z adults were to “establish their own household” – the highest percentage of all generations
  • Texas welcomed the most Gen Z overall (345,000), but West Virginia saw the highest net gain in Gen Z moves (+138%)
  • Vermont (-73%), Alabama (-68%), and Mississippi (-64%) were the states Gen Z were most likely to leave
  • The NYC metro area saw the biggest numeric influx of Gen Z members (183,000), but Austin-Round Rock, TX (+106%) had the greatest net gain

Generation Z — or Zoomers, as they’re sometimes called — have been the subject of many headlines lately. As they come of age, their differences from other generations in terms of workplace habits, home ownership ambitions, political views, and the use of technology are increasingly well-documented.

But what about moving? We know that Gen Z, like the generation before them, is burdened with less favorable economic outlooks, including poor housing affordabilityhigh rent, and student debt. Presumably, in light of these factors, some surveys find a record number of young adults are staying put and living with their parents

 

“In absolute terms, their top destination was Texas, which welcomed 345,000 new Gen Z residents in 2023. However, the state with the greatest net gain of Gen Z moves was West Virginia. “

 

When we look at the moving data, however, a different trend emerges. Despite making up just 12% of the population, Gen Z adults (aged 18 to 26) accounted for 26% of all moves that took place in America this year

In this study, we take a deep dive into Gen Z moving patterns to uncover how actively they’re moving compared to other generations, highlight what motivates their moves and reveal where they’re moving to and from.


Zoom Zoom: Gen Z is the Most Mobile of All Generations in 2023

The thing about America is that, as a nation, we move a lot less now than we did a few decades ago. Save for a blip in 2022 when the percentage went up, the overarching trend has been pointing down since the mid-1980s.

However, this isn’t true for Gen Z at all. 17% of them moved in 2023 — a number twice as high as the national average. It was also the highest out of all other generations.

By comparison, only 11% of Millennials (Gen Y) moved this year. That share dips even lower for older generations, as 5% of Gen X and just 3% of Baby Boomers changed where they live in 2023.

Not only are Gen Z the most mobile generation, but they’re also the ones bucking the overall downward trend in movingAfter a drop in 2020, which was likely caused by the COVID-19 pandemic, more and more Gen Z adults have been moving each year. And they’re the only generation to do so. 

Flying the Nest to Make Their Own: Key Reasons Behind Moves of Gen Z Members

Based on the U.S. Census Bureau data, the most common reason for moving among Gen Z members in 2023 was “establishing their own household”, i.e. most likely moving out of their parents’ home. 

Responsible for around 17% of all Gen Z moves, it was more popular with this generation than any other. Another reason for moving most distinctly popular with Gen Z was “relationship with unmarried partner” (read: move in with a significant other).

This reason drove around 8% of moves by Gen Z adults in 2023, which is higher than any other generation and is above the 5% national average. 

Despite reports of increased home-buying activity, Gen Z has the lowest share of moves associated with becoming a homeowner (≈5%) compared to other generations. 

At the same time, 9% of Gen Z adults moved for cheaper housing in 2023. The only generation for whom it was higher was Baby Boomers (10%).

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Almost Heaven: West Virginia Records Highest Net Gain in Gen Z Moves in 2023

So Gen Z is moving in record numbers, but where are they moving to and from?

In absolute terms, their top destination was Texas, which welcomed 345,000 new Gen Z residents in 2023. However, the state with the greatest net gain of Gen Z moves was West Virginia

In 2023, 138% more Gen Z adults moved to this state than left it. Four others — Utah (+137%), South Carolina (+136%), Colorado (+107%), and Kansas (+107%) — had at least twice as many members of Generation Z move in than move out.

States by net moves (only interstate moves are included)

State Net Gen Z Moves State Net Gen Z Moves
West Virginia 138% Vermont -73%
Utah 137% Alabama -68%
South Carolina 136% Mississippi -64%
Colorado 107% New York -57%
Kansas 107% Iowa -53%
Washington 97% Minnesota -53%
Idaho 96% North Carolina -48%
Kentucky 76% Wyoming -47%
Ohio 54% California -43%
Pennsylvania 52% Arkansas -43%

On the flipside, members of Gen Z were most likely to leave Vermont (-73%), Alabama (-68%), and Mississippi (-64%). It’s worth noting that New York (-57%) and California (-43%)  are states that often come out on top of net outflow rankings, and they feature here in the 4th and the 9th spot respectively. And speaking of the volume of moves, California alone saw over 415,000 Gen Z people leave the state in 2023.

To see what the Gen Z moving patterns looked like for all other states, check out our interactive map below.

Austin, TX Metro is a Gen Z Magnet: Top Destinations for Gen Z Moves

Texas and Florida didn’t feature high in state rankings, but their metros sure are up there for moving destinations among Generation Z members.

 

“17% of [Gen Z] moved in 2023 — a number twice as high as the national average. It was also the highest out of all other generations.”

 

Austin-Round Rock, TX (+106%) is in first place — it had twice as many Gen Z members move in than out of it. Florida, on the other hand, is represented by metro areas around Tampa, FL (+55%) and Jacksonville, FL (+38%), both posting healthy net gains. 

In line with state-level findings, Columbia, SC (+82%), Provo-Orem, UT (+53%), and Colorado Springs, CO (+37%) feature among the 10 metropolitan areas with the highest net gain in moves by Gen Z.

Metros by net moves

Metro Net Gen Z Moves Metro Net Gen Z Moves
Austin-Round Rock, TX +106% San Jose-Sunnyvale-Santa Clara, CA -39%
Oklahoma City, OK +88% Detroit-Warren-Dearborn, MI -37%
Columbia, SC +82% New YorkNewark-Jersey City, NY-NJ-PA -33%
Las Vegas-Henderson-Paradise, NV +71% Chicago-Naperville-Elgin, IL-IN-WI -32%
Nashville-Davidson-Murfreesboro-Franklin, TN  +78% Minneapolis-St. Paul-Bloomington, MN-WI -26%
Tampa-St. Petersburg-Clearwater, FL +55% Pittsburgh, PA -24%
Provo-Orem, UT +53% Los Angeles-Long Beach-Anaheim, CA -24%
Virginia Beach-Norfolk-Newport News, VA-NC +51% Miami-Fort Lauderdale-West Palm Beach, FL -24%
Jacksonville, FL +38% San Francisco-Oakland-Hayward, CA -22%
Colorado Springs, CO +37% Indianapolis-Carmel-Anderson, IN -20%

The other side of the table is dominated by metropolitan areas in California. As some of the most expensive places to live in the United States, metro areas around cities such as San Jose, CA (-39%), Los Angeles, CA (-24%), and San Francisco, CA (-22%) all many more Gen Z members leave than relocate here.

Incidentally, Florida also has a metropolitan area with one of the highest net losses of Gen Z residents. About 24% more members of Generation Z moved out of Miami-Fort Lauderdale-West Palm Beach, FL than moved there in 2023.

Curious about what the situation is near you? We’ve put all metros with a significant number of moves by Gen Z adults onto this interactive map.


Sources and Methodology

All data on moves, their origins, destinations, and reasons behind them was taken from the U.S. Census Bureau’s Current Population Survey and its Annual Social and Economic Supplements, as available via IPUMS. All estimates and percentages are based on moves within the United States.
For this study, we adapted the definition of generations from Beresford Research which defined them based on their age in 2023 as follows:
  • Gen Z: 18* – 26
  • Gen Y (Millennials): 27 – 42
  • Gen X: 43 – 58
  • Baby Boomers: 59 – 77
Technically, Gen Z includes anyone from age 11, but our analysis only included moves made by adults.
Net gain and loss for states and metropolitan areas was calculated as follows:
  1. # of people moving into the state or city, to
  2. the # of people moving out of the state or city,
  3. expressed as a percentage (%)

2023 Study: Where, How and Why Are Americans Moving This Year?

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Key Findings

  • More than half (52%) of all moves in America take place in the summer
  • Our survey findings suggest 40% plan on moving at some point this year
  • ‘Family’ (30%) and ‘Wanting More Space’ (25%) are the top reasons for moving this year
  • A total of 38% are moving for financial reasons, such as inflation, cost of living, and housing unaffordability
  • Climate change is a factor mentioned by 15% of Americans planning to move this year
  • 40% of those moving intend to stay within their city, but 18% are set on moving to a different state
  • More than half (55%) of those not moving this year would move if they had the means

 

Every year, millions of Americans move, and over half (52%) of those moves take place during what we in the moving business call “moving season” — otherwise known as the summer months of May through August.

So what does the moving season hold for us this year? To get a sense of how many Americans intend to move, when they’re going to move, and what drives their moving decisions, HireAHelper conducted a nationally representative survey of 2,000 adults in the U.S. earlier this month.

 

“The state most people have their sights on is California, where 11% would move if finances weren’t an issue.”

 

38% of Americans we surveyed intend to move at some point in 2023, collectively citing “Family“, “Looking for More Space” and “Wanting To Save Money” as the top reasons. A further 35% would move if they could, but find themselves struggling to afford housing where they want to live, or are struggling to afford the move itself.

Let’s delve into the findings and see how Americans look ahead to the 2023 moving season.


Moves in the Making: Four in Ten Americans Plan To Move in 2023

an illustration of someone taping a box. In the corner it's labeled fragileAs we noted earlier, nearly four in ten (40%) of our survey respondents said they are planning to move at some point this year. 

Moving intent is highest among the younger generation, as almost half (49%) of Gen Z respondents reported a planned move for sometime in 2023. And while this intent is still strong with Millennials (42%), it gradually fades with age, and dropping to a reported 27% for Baby Boomers.

Interestingly enough, Parents (41%) are more likely to be planning a move in 2023 than Non-Parents (36%). That said, that only applied to families with one or two kids. For families with three or more children, the percentage of those staying put exceeds the percentage of prospective movers.

Renters (46%) are more likely to be on the move than Homeowners (30%). However, only 25% of renters who are moving expect to own their next home, as 59% of renters reported moving to another rental.

Where are people leaving?

an illustration of white plates and cups being wrapped in brown packing paper. A currently empty cardboard box sits nearbyAmong people living in America’s biggest metropolitan areas, the intent to move is highest in Washington, D.C. (72%) and Los Angeles, CA (55%). There, the majority of residents we surveyed reported having plans to move at some point this year.

In San Francisco, CA (47%), New York, NY (46%), Philadelphia, PA (46%), and Houston, TX (45%), the share of people who reported intent to move this year fell just below half.

Conversely, within the metros of Charlotte, NC (16%), Orlando, FL (32%), and Chicago, IL (32%), the moving intent is the lowest among all metros with a sufficient number of respondents.

At the state level, New Jersey residents seem most keen to move (56%), whereas those in North Carolina (24%) are least likely to relocate in 2023.


Family, Square Footage and Finances: Top Reasons Why Americans Are Moving in 2023

The number one reason for those intending to move this year was reasons related to “Family” (30%), (such as “Being Closer to Family Members,”) with “Wanting More Space or a Bigger Home” (~25%) being the second most popular choice.

 

“Those who do plan on hiring some help for their move are looking to spend an average of $675…[and those] who expect to move without hired help are looking to keep it at an average of $312.”

 

However, if we look at the financial reasons, we’ll find that many Americans are moving either because of  “Foreclosure/Eviction” (7.5%), “Can’t Afford (Their) Current Housing” (10.7%), “(Moving Somewhere With) A Lower Cost of Living” (15.3%), or “Inflation” (17.2%).

If we add up all the respondents that said at least one of these financial reasons applies to them, the total share of Americans who intended to move due to financial pressures rose to 38%.

an illustration of a canvas wrapped in bubble wrap. it's stood on top of other packed boxes. Granted, the higher rates of inflation from 2022 seem to have leveled out, but our findings suggest that financial pressures continue to compel a significant number of Americans to relocate.

The financial reasons above were mentioned at the following rates by these demographics:

  • Families with children (40%) compared to childless households (37%)
  • People of color (44%) compared to white Americans (36%)
  • Renters (41%) compared to homeowners (35%)

Other popular reasons for moving in 2023 include “New Job” (16.2%), which, in fact, is more popular than moving due to “(Becoming) Unemployed” (9.8%).

Curiously, and unfortunately, more people are moving due to an “End of a Relationship/Divorce” (10.3%) compared to those moving due to a “New Relationship or Got Married” (7.1%).

an illustration of boxes being moved with a dollyOne significant reason that’s beginning to factor into the moving plans of Americans is “Climate Change” (14.9%), which is in fact distinct from “Want Nicer Weather” (10.4%).

According to estimates based on U.S. Census Bureau data, climate change affects some 20,000 moves per year, with experts suggesting that figure is set to increase.


Getting Practical: Planned Moving Distance and Estimated Cost

Based on our survey responses, 40% of people who are planning to move in 2023 are staying within the same city, while 33% intend to leave their current city, yet still stay within the same state.

Impressively, 18% of respondents intend to move to a different state. Specifically among those respondents, their reasons given were for “Better Weather” (38%), a “New Job” (34%), “Being Closer to Family” (21%), and “Seeking a Lower Cost of Living” (21%).

Thinking about the cost of their move, 44% intend to spend between $100 and $500 on moving, with an overall average being slightly higher at $530. This estimate includes buying moving boxes, potentially renting a truck, maybe hiring movers, etc.

Needless to say, not all Americans who plan on moving intend to hire movers, but 52% of them do, while 48% either intend to execute the move themselves or haven’t decided yet.

Those who do plan on hiring some help for their move are looking to spend an average of $675 between boxes, truck rentals, and movers. Those who expect to move without hired help are looking to keep it at an average of $312. (This figure is in line with nationwide averages of moving costs.)

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Would If I Could: Common Barriers Preventing Americans from Moving

Quite a few Americans are planning to move this year, and the number could have been even higher if it weren’t for certain factors keeping people from moving.

Of those respondents that aren’t moving this year or aren’t sure yet, 55% would move if they had the means and opportunity. The main reason they can’t move? They can’t afford it. People claimed they “Can’t Afford To Move” (58%) or they “Can’t Afford Housing Where (They) Want To Live” (38%).

But it’s not just the financial worries that keep Americans from moving. About a quarter of respondents in our survey who’d move if they could selected “Would Be Too Far Away From (Their) Family” (24%), “Worried About Making a Big Change” (25%) or “Worried It May Not Work Out” (27%), respectively.

Perhaps these concerns, as well as the general decline in the percentage of Americans moving partially explains why, our study found that, on average, Americans now move an average of eight times in their lifetime, down from a 2007 estimate of 11.7 times.


Dream Destinations: Where Would Americans Move if Anything Was Possible

One question we asked in our survey was about the state Americans would move to if money was no object. 

The state most people have their sights on is California, where 11% would move if finances weren’t an issue. Notably, Hawaii and Florida were the dream destinations for 9% of Americans, while New York and Colorado were the top choices for an additional 5% of respondents. 

Texas — a state that’s recently been a popular destination for corporate moves — would also be the go-to place to be for 4% of respondents.

A surprising 4% would leave the United States altogether if they could, but as many as 9% of our respondents would not choose to leave their state, even if money was no object.


Sources and Methodology
All data, unless otherwise stated, have been derived from the findings of the survey HireAHelper ran via Pollfish in May 2023. The survey used a nationally representative sample of 2,000 adults (18+) living in the United States.
Survey results were weighted by age, gender, and income using data extracted from the American Community Survey’s five-year data, collected from ~120,000 households.

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I’m a Millennial and I Hired Movers, Here’s What Happened

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After a lawless period of asking my friends for help moving throughout my early twenties, then straining my romantic relationships in my late twenties, I have arrived in my thirties ready to embrace movers! Like a lot of young people though, I didn’t exactly know how hiring movers even worked.

But when our dream Los Angeles apartment dropped into our lap, I found myself at a crossroads. Half the judgemental voices in my head were screaming to do the heavy lifting myself, while the other half murmured exhaustedly that I’m too old for that.

One thing both voices agreed on, though, was hiring movers for free. I couldn’t have been more delighted when HireAHelper stepped in to help me out. Yep, they offered me an all-expenses-paid move! (Though we did cover the tip ourselves, which I hope serves as a reminder whenever you get something for free.)

All that was expected of me in return was to book it myself and give an honest review. So here goes.

How Does Getting Movers Actually Work?

Whereas my previous moves inevitably began about a week (or let’s be honest, a few days) before the move as I threw everything into boxes, the conversations about this move started a whole couple of months ahead of my move.

Turns out, for a local move you can book shockingly affordable professional movers online without having to even talk to anyone, and it doesn’t even matter if it’s next day or next month. (But as you might imagine, the early bird gets the worm.)

All you need to be able to see hourly rates is a ZIP Code and a hypothetical move date to see who’s available near you — that’s literally it. 

Third-party sites like HireAHelper.com keep moving companies honest.

Or if you’re brave like me, you can just call and talk to a real-life customer service person. She got me mover booked in like, literally five minutes. (Sidenote: I learned booking a long-distance move needs a little more communication, but it’s the same basic idea.)

What does a moving company ask you when you book movers?

For a local move like mine, not a whole lot, honestly. Over the phone (and its the same online), they asked me:

  • The rough moving date
  • Distance traveling (aka a second ZIP Code/address)
  • Type of residence (e.g., home, apartment, condo, business, etc.)
  • Number of bedrooms
  • If you want labor-only or need them to bring a truck

Four out of five of those were easy answers — we were moving our West Hollywood one-bedroom apartment five miles east to Los Feliz, which qualified it as a local move — but the date itself was seriously up in the air.

After giving these few details, the person on the phone suggested how many movers I’d probably need and how many hours they’d likely need to finish my specific move.

I was still worried about the date though. We were initially told we could move in at the beginning of the month at the earliest, and definitely by the 15th, but I was starting to get a little suspicious that construction was going to take longer. 

Not knowing the exact moving date is a fact that would 100% have derailed me if I was doing this by myself, but luckily, my new friend Sandy didn’t seem bothered by that issue at all. She told me we should just get a date on the calendar and we could always move it later. 

Sandy was able to score me an appointment with Rigo’s Moving & Storage, one of LA’s top-rated moving companies. (They currently have a 4.9 rating out of 5, with nearly 500 reviews.) 

 

“Honestly, my most difficult task was figuring out what to do while everyone around me was being so industrious, but it was over so quickly that I hardly even had time to get uncomfortable”

 

Instead of belated “sorry, can’t make it” texts from my weary friends on the day-of, I got confirmation emails from HAH and Rigo’s in quick succession, and just like that, the move itself was off my plate. I suddenly felt like I could focus on work, packing, and the many other stressors that come with a move. 

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What happens before moving day?

On the Monday before the beginning of the month move — yes, I was right about the construction — my phone rang. My immediate thought? “Omg, my friend with the van is about to bail.” But then I snapped awake, remembering that I’m not in my twenties anymore.

It was actually my moving company, calling to confirm my 9:00 a.m. appointment later that week. Then the evening before the actual move, I received yet another call. I thought it might be one final confirmation, or Rigo’s coming to their senses and ditching me to go to brunch, but it turned out to be HireAHelper reviewing my info for the next day. 

On the phone, my movers asked if there was a reason for booking a 12-foot truck, which he thought was kind of small. He then asked if they could send a 26-foot truck instead, free of charge, just to make sure his team didn’t have to make multiple trips.

Sure now that this was a prank call from Ashton Kutcher and that I didn’t have movers coming at all, I agreed. (And it turns out, no, HireAHelper did not put them up to this.) The main thing I contributed was packing.

What exactly happens on moving day?

The next day, right smack dab in the middle of the moving window, I got another call. Now, surely, this would be the moment when everything fell apart and I’d have to make twenty sweaty car trips while my boyfriend and I stewed in irritated, exhausted silence.

But nope! It was a heads up that our movers were ten minutes away, followed by another when they were right outside. (If you’re keeping track, that’s four separate phone calls confirming and communicating about a single move, which was incredibly reassuring to someone scarred by the stress of previous moves.)

Before I knew it, four movers descended on our apartment and asked for a few details on what was going and what was staying before launching into work. A big part of me was still assuming I’d get put to work, but in a ceaseless wave of motion, they:

  • Plastic-wrapped furniture
  • Disassembled our bed frame
  • Took endless rounds of boxes down the apartment complex stairs

Honestly, my most difficult task was figuring out what to do while everyone around me was being so industrious, but it was over so quickly that I hardly even had time to get uncomfortable.

Okay, then what happens during the unload?

After just over an hour, our apartment was empty and the Rigo’s guys told us we could head to the next location; they were already prepped with the address, so nobody needed to wait on each other. (A far cry from having a three-car caravan follow me to the new address and inevitably losing one of my ducklings at every traffic light and having to circle back.)

We drove all of 20 minutes to Los Feliz and arrived just as the window for our moving permit was opening, so there was plenty of space available on our street for the upgraded truck. (I had to reserve a time with the city to make room for the trucks by the way!) 

 

“…in the process of squeezing up and down the stairs, there was some scuffing that happened to the newly-painted walls…I pointed it out to one of the movers…and he assured me that he’d already taken photos and that someone would be reaching out to make sure I got compensated.”

 

This side of the move was decidedly more difficult, as our new apartment has an upstairs (!!!) and a lot more space, so I posted up in the living room to direct traffic. I’d also labeled each box with either a “UP” for upstairs or a “D” for downstairs so that I wouldn’t need to be present for every decision. (The habit of giving up control apparently dies hard.)

One of the movers got right to work upstairs reassembling our bed frame, calling down to me to make sure he’d placed it in a position I’d like (okay, communication!!), while the other three made trip after trip to the truck, coaxing the dolly up the outside steps and carefully negotiating larger items up the cramped indoor staircase.

They would have been well within their rights to complain, as I have nonstop when helping friends move in the past. But the funny thing about people being paid instead of doing you a favor is that they’re as motivated to do it quickly and well.

Then it was over?

At least I was sweating by the time the last box had made it inside, but it all still felt like it was over in a snap. Three hours might sound like a long time for a move, but it pales in comparison to the 10- and 12-hour marathons I’ve put myself through in the past. 

But this time around, my lovely boyfriend verified that all our items made it on a spreadsheet he’d prepared, I signed the paperwork for Rigo’s, and our four-person team was out the door and back in their truck, all before noon, and with no greasy pizza boxes to clean up or anything!

Post-Move Thoughts

With a bit of hindsight to mull things over, here’s what I think: If I had this move to do over again, I would change very little, even if I was using my own money. 

There were for sure little things that weren’t ideal, like the fact that two of our movers didn’t wear masks. (To be fair, I was too nervous to ask them to, but if you find yourself in a similar position, please ask! You’re paying for a service, and you’re absolutely in the right to expect your movers to adhere to both public health guidelines and those COVID-19 policies laid out by HAH.)

Another small downside is that in the process of squeezing up and down the stairs, there was some scuffing that happened to the newly-painted walls. Feeling very thirty-something, I pointed it out to one of the movers when I signed the paperwork, and he assured me that he’d already taken photos and that someone would be reaching out to make sure I got compensated. 

But other than those two things, honestly, everything went beautifully.

The move could not have been faster or smoother, our sectional is stable, the bed frame was rebuilt beautifully, and not one single item I moved was damaged in the process. My boyfriend was so enamored with this move that he says next time we should have the movers pack for us, too. To which I say… but then what would we fight about??

2019 Survey: Moving for Love Is Likely to Pay Off

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Most people make a move hoping for a positive outcome, maybe a shorter commute, more living space— or in the case of people moving for love, establishing a successful romance.

About one in four adults have moved for love at some point in their lives, finds our latest survey. But weighing whether one should move to be closer to a significant other can be tricky, compared to deciding to relocate for plenty of other reasons.

After all, does moving for love ever work out?

Because unlike people who just want a shorter commute or a bigger apartment, the success of moving for love can’t be measured in minutes or square footage. And with these matters of the heart, there are few guarantees.

Well, good news. A new HireAHelper survey about moving for love finds that relocating for a romantic relationship actually pays off. Here’s what we found:

Key Findings

  • One in four (24.1%)  people say they have moved to pursue a romantic relationship before
  • Three-quarters (73%) of people who moved for a romantic partner are either still together or were together for more than a year. This includes 38% who moved for the romantic partner they’re still with
  • Two-thirds (65%) of people who moved for a significant other are glad they made this decision
  • Even among couples who are together for six months or less after a move, 51% still say they’re glad about their decision to move for a partner
  • The hardest part of moving for love? Most commonly, it’s making the decision of whether to relocate in the first place with a third (32%) selecting this option. But about a quarter of respondents (27%) also cite the moving process as a major pain point

1 in 4 people have moved for love

About one in four people (24%) have relocated for a romantic partner, finds our survey. (Men are slightly more likely to have relocated than women, with 27% having done so compared to 23% of women.)

There are some generational differences when it comes to moving for love, as well. Baby boomers (ages 54 and up) are half as likely to have moved for love (12%) compared to overall responses. Millennials, however, are more likely to have moved for a romantic relationship (31%).

In total, a quarter of all respondents moved for love at some point in their lives, but does moving for love work?

Our survey suggests that relocating for a romantic relationship pays off more often than it doesn’t.

After a move, 73% of couples last more than a year

In all, three in four people who moved for a romantic relationship are still with their significant other, or were with their partner for more than a year after moving.

 

Of people who say they’ve relocated for a romantic partner, 38% are still with that person, while another 35% moved for a relationship that lasted for a year or longer. This is a solid success rate for long-distance couples or courters who are considering if a move will lead to a good match.

Of course, not every couple stays together after one partner relocates. Just over a quarter (27%) of people who moved for love said that this relationship lasted less than a year—of those, a third (10%) lasted less than three months.

2 in 3 are glad they moved for love

There are more good signs for couples who are considering relocating long distance for a relationship. The majority of people who made a move for a significant other view this choice positively.

 

In fact, two-thirds (65%) of people who moved for love say they’re glad they did so. (This includes 47% who say they are “very glad” they moved, and 19% who are “somewhat glad” about this decision.)

Another 19% have neutral feelings on this past decision to move for love. And of all the people who have relocated for romance, just 15% regret it.

How this decision is viewed is, of course, correlates to the outcome of the relationship. People who are still together tend to be the happiest with their decision to move (74% say they’re “very glad about it”).

But somewhat surprisingly, even when the relationships didn’t last, however, many still feel their move was a good decision. Just over half (51%) of people who were together 6 months or less after relocating for a partner say they’re glad they made that move.

For 27%, moving was the worst part of relocating for love

From finding movers to getting settled in a new home, moving involves major investments of time, money, and energy.

We asked people who have moved for love which parts of the moving process they found most difficult (allowing them to select more than one option). A third (32%) of say that making up their mind to move for a romantic relationship was one of the hardest parts of the process.

The moving process itself makes an appearance, of course, with 27% citing this as one of their biggest difficulties in relocating for love.

 

Homesickness might be another major issue to contend with after moving for a partner. The next-most common complaints about moving for love are difficulties adjusting to life in a new area (31%) and leaving their old lives behind (30%).

Other major pain points include being in a long-distance relationship before the move (28%) and finding a job in the new area (24%).

There are also some differences in how men and women were affected by moving for love.

Men had a harder time making up their mind to move (38% compared to 28% of women) and managing changes to the relationship after the move (13% to 11%).

Women more often found it difficult to work through disagreements about moving (13% compared to 9% of men) and finding housing in their new location (13% versus 7%).

People will move for a partner after dating for 6 months or more

Lastly, we asked some questions about respondents’ willingness and expectations to move for love.

About 44% of people say that if they had a long-distance partner, they’d be open to relocating to be together. Just 26%, by contrast, say they would be against moving for a long-distance relationship.

How far will people move for love? It’s split. 46% say they would only be willing to move within their own city or state to be closer to a romantic partner, but about the same number of people, 44%, say they’d be open to moving across state lines or further. (This includes 15% willing to relocate across the country and another 7% who would move out of the country for love.)

Another question long-distance couples wrestle with:  how long should they be a couple before it makes sense to consider moving to be closer? The magic length appears to be at least 6 months, with two-thirds (68%) of people saying they’d expect to be with a partner for half a year or longer to discuss a relocation.

However, one in five (20%) say they’d be willing to consider moving for a partner they’d been with for less than 6 months. Another 12% said they wouldn’t move for a romantic partner.

The results are in: moving for love is likely to pay off

Overall, Americans are fairly open to the idea of moving for love, and a quarter of adults have actually done so. And most people who relocate to pursue a romantic relationship have positive feelings about the outcome.

The results of our survey show that deciding whether to move for love can be a tough choice—the hardest part of the process, in fact. But for people who decide to do so, resettling nearer to a romantic partner has a solid chance of succeeding, sustaining, and paying off even when you don’t stay together.


Methodology

The results for this survey were conducted on the online platform Pollfish, collecting over 1,000 responses on April 23, 2019. When discussing generational trends, we matched up the survey’s demographics to the age ranges that most closely matches the current ages of these groups: millennials includes respondents ages 25 to 34, generation X-ers includes ages 35 to 44, and baby boomers refers to respondents ages 65 and older.
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